All parents can’t deny that they have never had a bad experience with their teens. You will reach desperation especially if you have a defiant kids who do not see anything wrong with them behaving the way they do. At this point, it is necessary that you follow specific steps so that you can ensure your teenagers are behaving the right way. One of the things you should do is to have an expected standard. Differentiate what is right or wrong for them. Avoid imposing rules on your kids but rather incorporate their opinions in making them. On the other hand, is good that you set the punishment that comes with breaking any of the rules. For instance, if one will not be willing to take healthy meals that you will order on a day out, they had better stay at home.
Limiting the choices available to your kids is also another way of controlling troubled teen. The clothes that your teens wear for a particular occasion may not be the right ones. You can opt to prepare two or three pairs of clothes which you feel is appropriate according to the weather and the occasion. Doing this will allow them to select one of them. The fact that you have not forced them to wear a specific cloth will make them have a sense of belonging and independence. Ensure that you mould a good behaviour in your kid which will guide them in future. For a better tomorrow of your kids, it is wise that you make sure they grow up to be independent grown-ups.
What is expected of you in the event that your children misbehave? Try to control your outrage whenever you are aggrieved by your kids. Doing this will establish a fight between you two. You have to be the head all the time. You will always earn your respect from your kids even when they have wronged you. It is not a must that you fight over minor problems all the time. Doing this will enable you to handle a challenge which may occur in future with regards to your a child who has severe behavior.
Bearing in mind that children are always curious to discover new things, perhaps you should tell them what the implication will be if they tough, dangerous things. Ensure that you mention and show them what you are referring to so that they can be familiar with them. The kids are supposed to create a good rapport with other members of the family all the time. Respect can only be received when one relates well with their affiliates, and this is what your kids should always look for. You will be required to continually tell them on how to act appropriately and applause every positive behavior.